Wow! I don’t think we’ve ever had 34 responses before. Our challenge was who first raised the issue of spanking. I believe that the majority answer was that the women did. Here are your responses. Mthc: ME. ME. ME. It took a while but he finally caught on. Now Hubby (David) can't get enough!Dove: I simply asked ML to do it but it took a long time to get that courage up in the first place. It was worth it though. :): The topic came up when we were still just talking on-line. I could have sworn that He had brought it up but in reviewing our correspondence. I discovered that I was originally the one who first mentioned it. Of course. He picked up on it immediately and expounded on the subject and on His interest in it. The rest is history. Anon #1: We had played with spanking for a while but I eventually got the courage to express hubby that I wanted and needed a "real" spanking. After our first undergo he was a little shocked at the appearance of my furnish. We have learned a lot since then and now I apply a regular bum warming. I still have to ask for a hard spanking usually when I am under a lot of stress at bring home the bacon. Terpsichore: While I was the first to express to my preserve that I wished to be taken over his knee and be spanked if I be back in time he was the first one to furnish me a playful spank. Unfortunately at the time. I was not comfortable telling him how much I liked it. Now many years later. I am create from raw material and awaiting my first real spanking :-)Jean Marie: Let me add my voice to the chorus of submissive women who outspokenly told their respective mates that they needed to be spanked. I was a college co-ed who had experimented with sex with three rather fumbling suitors. Each time the third date signaled that things were at a crossroads. Each man made a compete kissing me getting my bra off working fingers between my humid thighs asking if I wanted to "do it." I nodded and disrobed. They came. I didn't. Then I met Chris. On our first go out over dinner he kissed me passionately. I knew then that we'd have sex later and that it'd be different. He didn't ask if he could come in when he saw me to my door he just did. He expertly unhooked my bra and even more masterfully pinched my nipples until they projected desire.45 caliber bullets. I was still swooning from that when he removed my skirt and underwear kissing and caressing me all the while. It wasn't something to be ashamed of his actions proclaimed. It was something to be hungrily devoured desire his dinner. Sex was better maybe because he wasn't solicitous of me he just pleased himself. He finished when I was close to climaxing and this time I felt emboldened enough to communicate up."I wanna cum," I sighed in his ear. "and I'm mere inches away..."He roughly inserted two fingers in my one set of dripping lips and gruffly kissed the other set."I need something more," I whispered pulling away from his communicate. The guilty little-boy-lost be in his eye said that he wouldn't be hard again for a little while."I be to be spanked..." I confessed. "I need for you to..."I didn't get to end. I was turned over his knee. I was blistered with his huge touch for about ten minutes straight. I came twice during this onslaught. He then took me off his lap and placed me face down on the bed thrusting into me with a revitalized erection that pushed me to heaven's gates. I often query what my life would've been like if I'd stayed with Chris.: I did. While DH has since expressed arouse. I don't experience that it's something he would undergo ever considered. I had found stories and articles on the web that had struck a chord with me but I wasn't sure how to bring it up. Eventually. I printed out some of the stories and articles had them out on the bed and tried to act relaxed while 'reading' them. When DH asked what I was reading. I answered honestly and showed him. His initial reaction was one of bemusement. He's somewhat accepted spanking as something I apply/want/be but still has some hang-ups about it. It's still new to us so some issues are only to be expected. Anon VII: From ancient history: She started it and I finished it! We were "getting with it" late one night in more or less standard vanilla fashion on the couch in my apartment during my graduate educate days. As she got quite steamy she said a naughty word and then said with her inimitable coyness. "You may spank me for that." Somewhat to her surprise without missing a beat. I promptly flipped her over my lap (she's petite. I'm not). Much more slowly. I lifted her fetching little miniskirt and honored her request giving her more than she asked for in the form of all manner of hand and finger caresses before and in between what I evaluate it was ten very tighten well-spaced swats with my slightly cupped hand. The dwell was spinning around both of us when I finished and I honestly don't remember much in the way of details after that. My next clear memory is waking with her snuggled up to me in bed the next morning which fortunately was a Saturday. We later learned from each other that it was each of our first times to act in spanking as foreplay but that we'd fantasized about doing it with others for years.: That's actually not so simple for us. I posted on a communicate come in about spanking in response to someone else bringing up the topic. Suzy then e-mailed me with some thoughts and questions. So. I brought it up first.. but she brought it up first between us. Mary: We were both "looking" for a spanking partner when we found each other. For us the spanking was arranged as a means to an end. I needed it in grad school. He wanted someone to spank. The first one was formally arranged. The irony is that for us the question should be "Who brought up the idea of adding a vanilla relationship to accompany the spanking?" I have to say it was all His idea. After that first spanking we were standing there. The lecture was finished so he pulled me close in a comforting. "It’s all over now" embrace. At some point. I got over the embarrassment of having my first adjust bare bottom spanking enough to look up at him. He kissed me. I wasn't expecting that but I loved it. I kissed back and the rest is history (as often documented at Bonnie's brunch). I like his kisses to this day.: With my ex-hubby it was me who brought it up. He seemed keen on the idea and actually showed potential but in the end it all fizzled out. In my current relationship we met through a spanking group so we both automatically knew what we wanted and desired. That was so much simpler than trying to convert a vanilla. LOLBet: In our case it was all my idea! I had fantasized about being spanked for many years and had trawled the net for information. But it was not until after we were married that I found the guts to spring it on him. I told him on our honeymoon after tender lovemaking lying change state and cuddling. He had quite a neutral response but seemed very accepting. He also smiled and said something desire. “I anticipate I could spank you if you did something really naughty.” That line caused me to lie awake till five in the morning when I finally made up my mind. I tiptoed into the kitchen took a small bowl and a bit of wet and ice. I tiptoed back in the bedroom and quickly poured the wet over him. Then I ran! My heart was racing knowing I had sent a strong enough communicate and not really knowing what I had gotten myself into. After a while. I composed myself and walked slowly approve. He grabbed me and told me. “That was not a nice.
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